Thanks Corvus, im pretty happy with the setup.
Ive loved the Snow Peak stuff ive bought in the passed (KSF sets, Sporks, Single Wall mugs, Double Wall mugs) hence i pulled the trigger on the Ti Trek900 set. However immediately i find myself getting annoyed at the loose fitting lid (mini pot / fry pan thing haha) and as i mentioned before it feels too light, the mugs for example feel extremely robust where as the Trek900 set feels like it would crush if you packed it away to tightly in your pack. Likely a big over reaction on my part, and clearly if people were easily damaging their pots then there would be plenty of posts around the internet saying so but it seems to have a good reputation so i wont start looking for a replacement just yet
(Any replacement would be of the Pot with a std simple flat lid variety - but again it must fit the gas + stove inside).
As for the stoves, in the end it was actually another of Dan's posts that swayed me from buying the BRS-3000T. He mentioned it arriving with one of the arms slightly bent; and iirc commented it was easily bent back into shape. That was it for me, and again i found similar comments regarding the light weight Fire Maple stove, arriving deformed / bent and requiring straightening or modifying. So i started at 25grams - Nearly $20 delivered on ebay, then 40grams and $45/50 then figured well the Ti Kovea at 60grams and $60 would be the answer and would be of the sort of strength / build quality i expect.
End of the day my entire cooking setup now comes in under 600grams (with 230g gas canister). My full Trangia 500ml bottle weights more, let alone the 1L bottle and the Trangia itself!!!
Travis.