stry wrote:I was deliberately vague because the "feelings" are often vague and difficult even for the person with the feeling to articulate. I simply acknowledge and take notice. Acknowledging and taking notice is not judging or acting.
I offered my currently held view because others who appear to have difficulty with this topic and persist in trying to rationalize it, may find it helpful. Butting heads over what some study does or doesn't say and whether it or does or does not discredit some thing that continues to be difficult for anyone to explain is pointless.
Hopefully what I have expressed will give others something to consider.
slparker wrote:if I read Sty's comment correctly he/she is stating that women's intuition is infallible regarding the malicious intent of others. Anyone schooled in the science of psychology or with more than a casual interest in the legal system would know that this is incorrect. Women's intuition about men may be correct or may be incorrect. We have no way of knowing as intuition is not reliable.
north-north-west wrote:slparker wrote:if I read Sty's comment correctly he/she is stating that women's intuition is infallible regarding the malicious intent of others. Anyone schooled in the science of psychology or with more than a casual interest in the legal system would know that this is incorrect. Women's intuition about men may be correct or may be incorrect. We have no way of knowing as intuition is not reliable.
Logical.
But, all the same, I'm going to continue 'erring' on the side of caution, so when my gut tells me a situation is dicey I'll take steps to get the hell outa Dodge.
Lindsay wrote:Happy Pirate wrote:Interesting thread.
It's funny. I'm sure we would ALL like to encourage more women to get out bush and particularly to brave the wilds alone.
And you'd have to be an idiot not to aknowledge that women hiking alone, generally, are fearful of and prone to much more harrassment and intimidation than solo men or groups.
And yet somehow, when a solo-hiking woman offers her genuine perspective (so rarely heard) her opinion has to be constantly argued against, contradicted, mansplained and finally hijacked by posts of ninja death-punches.
Thanks Guys,
kinda proves her point
Steve
(OK come at me;-))
HP, I don't think anyone was arguing against the OP or discounting the uncomfortable experience she had. In my case I was disagreeing with the premise that all male bushwalkers needed a reminder about correct behaviour. This has drawn the ire of some of the more PC minded members who seem to think that I am obliged to submit myself to being educated about correct behaviour simply for the Original Sin of being a male.
neilmny wrote:boronia,
You could be confident that the road trip to the track head is far more fraught with danger than the bushwalk but we always have doubts and fears ingrained into us from a young age.
Some rise above it some don't. As a male I have one foot in and one foot out of that door. Some places just don't feel right even if there's no one else to be seen.
GTL wrote:Why should this be aimed at "GUYS"? My girlfriend got ogled at by a lesbian on a hike a while ago. Funny, but creepy
TamarJ wrote:This is a subject I am actually quite passionate about, and stirs me, leaves me trembling. Considering that, I probably shouldn't be replying. But, here's my pov. I try and avoid people. I go to great lengths to achieve that. However, on the odd occasion I do bump into them, I am happy to consider the odds, and will give anyone the time of day. I will chat with them if that's what they seem inclined to do, even exchange contact details if we seem to be like minded people. I have no problem spending an hour of my time with someone who is respectful and friendly. I am also aware that "different" does not necessarily mean "bad".
Anyhoo, I'm shaking like a leaf at the moment. I'll leave this here.
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