Sat 16 Aug, 2014 10:44 pm
awildland wrote:I just wrote a huge reply to this thread and then it didn;t save…couldn't be bothered writing it all again…in summary, horrible things happen in life anywhere anytime. Bushwalkers are nice people who share my passion for the quiet peaceful Australian bush. I am of the female variety and have solo camped in campgrounds, solo day walked and this week did my first solo over night. Beautiful.
Just don't watch Wolf Creek and everything wil be fine…l
Mon 18 Aug, 2014 8:53 pm
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Tue 19 Aug, 2014 8:45 am
andyszollosi wrote:This might be of interest to this discussion... Here is an article about a 16 year old girl solo hiking the entire length of the Australian Alps Track... I wonder how she went in the end!
http://www.bushwalkingblog.com.au/16-ye ... ing-track/
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 10:54 am
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Tue 19 Aug, 2014 1:02 pm
neilmny wrote:For what it's worth I think every male (inc. this one) out walking is aware of the potential danger from some nut job. Just being male doesn't make you safe probably just more confident (possibly misguided). Even Phil with a black belt still has to be consciuos that something is happening to use his defence skills.
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 1:21 pm
ErichFromm wrote:It's like going to a playground with your kids - not wanting to be too friendly with other kids in case it's taken the wrong way. Sad - but I guess a reality these days.
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 4:58 pm
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Tue 19 Aug, 2014 5:13 pm
Moondog55 wrote:They were each so self confident and fit that they scared me into politeness even if my intentions were far from honorable
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 7:31 pm
neilmny wrote:. Even Phil with a black belt still has to be consciuos that something is happening to use his defence skills.
It has to be safer out in the sticks than in the streets if only for the fact that there is less people around. I'm happy to walk alone in the bush but not so
sure of the big smoke late at night.
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 8:12 pm
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Wed 20 Aug, 2014 11:06 am
Tortoise wrote:BUT
I've had a few unpleasant experiences (none in Tassie), always within 2km of a road of some kind.
Eg Ute half full of slabs of beer, had to walk past the bunch of drunk yobbos to the campsite, they come and 'visit' us that night, joke about the kinds of things they might do to us...
While it would be unpleasant for many men, we felt especially vulnerable as women. Not on my own that time, but it does come to mind when I consider where I'll go on my own. (Have thought about learning self defence as a last resort, but I'd expect it'd be in 'civilisation', not in the bush, that I'd ever need it.)
Hoons on quad bikes circling my tent for eons it seemed (first solo camp). they found a way around the locked gate. I packed up, got out off track as soon as they headed off up the track, lest they returned. No specific fear, just felt very vulnerable, which isn't why I'm out there.
Stumbling on a ? sleeping man in a reserve in suburbia, when I was enjoying a bit of off track scrambling to remember what a hill is like. Really odd things were there - could have been an innocent situation, maybe not. I wasn't comfy, especially on my own.
Coming across a bunch of teens with serious graffiti gear / bolt cutters etc in the same reserve. yep, felt very vulnerable. Mighta been just fine, but I looked for an offtrack alternative (in the dark without a torch) to avoid walking right past them. Haven't enjoyed walking there since.![]()
Some things I enjoy about walking on my own:
I get to walk at exactly my own pace all the time, stop when I want, peak-gaze or flower-examine whenever I want, spend as long as I like whenever I like taking photos or checking out opportunities, or waiting for the light to change etc. I often have more chance of getting to my goal than in a bigger group with mixed levels of fitness. Sometimes I really benefit spiritually from not having any other people there.
Wed 20 Aug, 2014 11:29 am
Snowzone wrote:I agree so much with what your saying about walking on your own Tortoise and I think you have handled all the above situations well by avoiding inflaming any situations and moving on. Common sense.
One thing I have often wondered in the case of the ute full of beer scenario if you were on your own instead of with other women (thats a presumption) would they still have been such yobbo's.
I had similiar unwanted attention by a group of males when I was in a group of four women and the so called men thought they would get lucky. They didn't! They did put on a great display of yobbo like behaviour trying. I do wonder if I was on my own if they would of tried so hard and may of just left me alone. When I have come across groups of men on my own they are usually more than respectful.
Wed 20 Aug, 2014 11:34 am
Tortoise wrote: I don't want to put it to the test, though!
Wed 20 Aug, 2014 9:32 pm
ErichFromm wrote: Simone: if you were out walking with your daughter and a guy started chatting to you would it make you cautious? Or does being friendly help establish you aren't a threat?
Fri 22 Aug, 2014 8:26 pm
Fri 22 Aug, 2014 9:44 pm
north-north-west wrote:Meh. Life's better without people. Bushwalking doubly so.
(No offence to everyone on the Rogoona/Nescient weekend recently. But I'm so glad you camnped at Myrtle rather than following me up the mountain.)
Fri 22 Aug, 2014 10:15 pm
Kainas wrote:north-north-west wrote:Meh. Life's better without people. Bushwalking doubly so.
(No offence to everyone on the Rogoona/Nescient weekend recently. But I'm so glad you camnped at Myrtle rather than following me up the mountain.)
For me, every experience is improved by the presence of a friend (mostly my husband) to share the experience with, even just to sigh and talk about how much we enjoyed it. I think we spend half the time chatting together, and half of it lost in our own little worlds... and the combination makes the whole experience perfect.
I am not adverse to solo walking (creepy guys aside), but for me it is ten times better to do it with someone. It seems I am a minority with this opinion.
Fri 22 Aug, 2014 10:58 pm
walkon wrote:
Kainas your quite likely the normal one, most of us here are probably just antisocialbastards. I have enjoyed my walks with others lately, though looking in front of you seeing and hearing only nature has more appeal.
Sat 23 Aug, 2014 4:44 am
Kainas wrote:walkon wrote:
Kainas your quite likely the normal one, most of us here are probably just antisocialbastards. I have enjoyed my walks with others lately, though looking in front of you seeing and hearing only nature has more appeal.
I achieve this by walking faster than him (this in turn is achievable by making sure he has the heavy pack!)
Sat 23 Aug, 2014 8:37 am
Kainas wrote:I am not adverse to solo walking (creepy guys aside), but for me it is ten times better to do it with someone. It seems I am a minority with this opinion.
Mon 25 Aug, 2014 8:56 am
Mon 25 Aug, 2014 11:29 am
north-north-west wrote:Kainas wrote:I am not adverse to solo walking (creepy guys aside), but for me it is ten times better to do it with someone. It seems I am a minority with this opinion.
No, you're in the majority. Even the most competent walkers I know generally try to organise company for a walk rather than just packing up and going on their own. I'm just a particularly antisocial and socially inept old cow.
Mon 25 Aug, 2014 8:20 pm
ErichFromm wrote:Not just you: nothing I hate more than realising there is a group of people somewhere behind me during a walk. All of a sudden I find it's a race to stay ahead to avoid the inane chit-chat.
More than once I've almost burst something trying to stay ahead of day walkers cruising along without heavy backpacks....
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